Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Keepin It On the LOW

Recently I happened upon a situation that I felt needed to be addressed. This is a touchy subject so put your heart on the shelf momentarily. More and more our society is less critical and judgemental than before, so why is it that men still feel the need to hide their true sexuality from women, from people in general?

HIV/AIDS has bought a brand new pair of Nike's and is running rapid among our generation. This is a big deal! Men if you're homosexual it can be understood that it may be embarrassing to confess such a personal thing, but those who love you, I mean really love you will be able to accept you. The fact of the matter is that if we are saying we love someone we have to love them enough to understand that people are just that, people. We fall short of expectations all the time.

For those who are unfamiliar with the term "down low" its a word used to describe men who by day lead a heterosexual life, and behind closed doors have sexual relationships with men. Men doing this (not to say women aren't doing the same) are putting their loved ones at risk. If you love the woman you're with you owe it to her to give her a choice in the matter.

How is it that we've come to such a point that we think its better to hurt someone rather than protect them. AIDS is no laughing matter and shedding some light on the issue is a must. More AIDS cases are contracted through anal-sex than any other sexual contact, because of tears around the anus.

This isn't meant to be derogatory toward anyone, but a slap in the face, to hopefully make us wake up and see that we are destroying ourselves.

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Anonymous said...

AMEN HUN!!!!!!! This subject was directed towards the down low men, but we also need to address the down low women as well.... I mean DAMN yall, if your preference is the same sex, then be with you posses! Its life and death with this subject and I understand you may be ashamed, but be your self instead of hurting someone else. Its not right and it sure as hell isn't fair to the innocent partner. I have plenty of gay friends and I love them for who they are not for who they wish to share their bed or emotions with. Just remember the dark always comes to light and you will be the one fighting a situation harder than it was intended to be!!

~Britaine'