Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Just like Candy



Has anyone else noticed that we compare love and relationships to sweets. Hence, the songs Candy Rain by Soul For Real and Candy by Cameo. What about love makes us think of something sweet and tasty?

"It's like candy, I can feel it when you walk, even when you talk, it takes over me...I wanna know can you feel it too, the way I do. The stuff is starting now, its the same feeling, I always seem to get around you." This is the way love is supposed to feel. It's supposed to make us feel intoxicated, full and overwhelmed with affection and emotion.

In love do you ever dream of, candy coated rain drops? Don't laugh, this is serious! When we think of love, isn't this the way we think? We think of bouquets of flowers, hugs and kisses (the chocolate one's too), teddy bears, holding hands and all the other mushy stuff that we want boxed up with our love.

Yet; some where in between work and school, family, friends and our own selfishness we loose these warm fuzzies that we had when our love began. Whether it be from petty misunderstandings to blow-out arguments, the fun that we shared in love begins to fade and we become serious, defensive and annoyed with each other, and sadly that love gets buried underneath it all.

Think about it, we give so much of ourselves, if our lovers asked for the moon, wouldn't we make a call to NASA? Be honest with yourself for a minute...we would. If we truly love the way we think we do, why aren't we dreaming of candy coated rain drops, we say that we never thought we'd find that perfect person, but when their in our grasp, we let go, instead of fighting for what our heart says is right.

Candy rain sounds so nice (I know its corny), if it rained chocolate kisses we'd all be happy campers. "My love, do you ever dream of, candy coated raindrops? You're the same, you're my candy rain."

5 comments:

Me said...

Wow! this song is going to be in my head all day!!! I think love does get buried underneath all the stresses of everyday life, but I also think that's what makes us appreciate it more. As good as it feels to be head over heels in love, a little outside stress does help to make love stronger. I'm a sucker for romance, and I do think that couples should to something spontaneous at least 2-3x a month to keep the love pot bubblin'. There is absolutely nothing like the butterflies you get in your stomach when you first start falling for someone...wouldn't it be nice to get that feeling back? ;)

Anonymous said...

Love Goddess, no one can ever be mad at your blogs!! They so funny

Anonymous said...

mmmm...jus like candy.the first thing that pops in my head honestly is ummm..victorias secret kissable massage oil....it taste jus like candy....this girl, one time..umm achem! back to the topic..my bad...love is not what it use to be...back in your parents and grandparents days...love was jus like candy..chocolate rain-sinets..lol..etc...its so much goin in the world with divorces..relationships..people lose sight of that..but how can you blame them?...the little things what counts....i believe everybody have that spark..they jus need sumone to bring it out of them...love nowadays is jus like dirty clothes...you wear it..you get it mess..you throw it in the hamper..you wash clothes and it starts back over again....i think im losing sight of the topic at hand..but im jus typing whatever comes to mind....relationship arent sparking cuz people get so use to the norm..they feel they shouldnt have to anymore..but a me on the other...it doesnt hurt..to go get a rose just cause..go buy a box of chocolates and then eat some jus cuz you was thinkin bout her..wal around the part..go to a lake and throw bread at the ducks...people have lost sight of what the true meaning of love is....

Anonymous said...

Awwww thats cute Keya!!! Sweet comment at the end!!! lol! Well said!
~Britaine'

Anonymous said...

Razzle Dazzle.. Go buy a box of candy and eat it cause you were thinking about her. How about he give me the box of chocolate to let me know he was thinking bout me! lol! Couples do get stuck in a rut and do things out of routine/habit. This will happen but it's important to do something about it rather then ignore it. Me is doing a good thing buy making it a priority to do something spontaneous 2-3x monthly. Razzle Dazzle has a lot of great ideas to keep the romance in the relationship.